What destroy us is not the events or accidents but the thoughts of that event in our mind! We are slaved by our mind and are not aware of it. We let it guide us wherever it likes and give us what filing it likes. Our mind itself is quietly under control of our feelings ant let them overcome him and follow what that feeling whant it to follow. So it searches for thoughts which increase that feeling automatically. In every moment it's so important to be aware of what's going on in our mind and not which thought it's in it. As soon as we become aware of it, we can realize the feeling inside it as well. What is very important here is to observe it from outside as if we are looking at it by the someone else's eyes. One negative thought which sometimes comes to the mind of many people is looking down on themselves and feeling that they don't deserve having improved in their life and being the master of their own. All such negative thoughts come to our mind one after another just when we have let the atmosphere of our mind be in negative state which is the reason of absorbing other negative thoughts. Our mind can be our best friend while it can be our biggest enemy too! If we let our mind be under control of the ego inside us then we are slaved by our ego through our mind. Ego never feels satisfied; Never..it always requests more and more and never says okay that's enough, I'm satisfied now! The reason absolutely majority of people are not satisfied of their life and are not happy inside is that. We should realize that the life never moves in a stable movement. Accidents, illnesses, losing loved ones, financial problems and etc are part of our life. Life without them is not life! In another word, the definition of life is a collection of all good things and bad things. Or happy times and hard times. Spiritual people look at everything as good things because they known that everything is for our good even if it's very bitter for us at the time of happening.

What destroy us is not the events or accidents but the thoughts of that event in our mind! We are slaved by our mind and are not aware of it. We let it guide us wherever it likes and give us what filing it likes. Our mind itself is quietly under control of our feelings ant let them overcome him and follow what that feeling whant it to follow. So it searches for thoughts which increase that feeling automatically. In every moment it's so important to be aware of what's going on in our mind and not which thought it's in it. As soon as we become aware of it, we can realize the feeling inside it as well. What is very important here is to observe it from outside as if we are looking at it by the someone else's eyes. One negative thought which sometimes comes to the mind of many people is looking down on themselves and feeling that they don't deserve having improved in their life and being the master of their own. All such negative thoughts come to our mind one after another just when we have let the atmosphere of our mind be in negative state which is the reason of absorbing other negative thoughts. Our mind can be our best friend while it can be our biggest enemy too! If we let our mind be under control of the ego inside us then we are slaved by our ego through our mind. Ego never feels satisfied; Never..it always requests more and more and never says okay that's enough, I'm satisfied now! The reason absolutely majority of people are not satisfied of their life and are not happy inside is that. We should realize that the life never moves in a stable movement. Accidents, illnesses, losing loved ones, financial problems and etc are part of our life. Life without them is not life! In another word, the definition of life is a collection of all good things and bad things. Or happy times and hard times. Spiritual people look at everything as good things because they known that everything is for our good even if it's very bitter for us at the time of happening.

What destroy us is not the events or accidents but the thoughts of that event in our mind! We are slaved by our mind and are not aware of it. We let it guide us wherever it likes and give us what filing it likes. Our mind itself is quietly under control of our feelings ant let them overcome him and follow what that feeling whant it to follow. So it searches for thoughts which increase that feeling automatically. In every moment it's so important to be aware of what's going on in our mind and not which thought it's in it. As soon as we become aware of it, we can realize the feeling inside it as well. What is very important here is to observe it from outside as if we are looking at it by the someone else's eyes. One negative thought which sometimes comes to the mind of many people is looking down on themselves and feeling that they don't deserve having improved in their life and being the master of their own. All such negative thoughts come to our mind one after another just when we have let the atmosphere of our mind be in negative state which is the reason of absorbing other negative thoughts. Our mind can be our best friend while it can be our biggest enemy too! If we let our mind be under control of the ego inside us then we are slaved by our ego through our mind. Ego never feels satisfied; Never..it always requests more and more and never says okay that's enough, I'm satisfied now! The reason absolutely majority of people are not satisfied of their life and are not happy inside is that. We should realize that the life never moves in a stable movement. Accidents, illnesses, losing loved ones, financial problems and etc are part of our life. Life without them is not life! In another word, the definition of life is a collection of all good things and bad things. Or happy times and hard times. Spiritual people look at everything as good things because they known that everything is for our good even if it's very bitter for us at the time of happening.

Who Determines Our Destiny?

this has always been a question for me since my childhood: do we have control on determining our fate or it’s just God who does it for us and we have no choice for it at all?Is really everything written for us in advance and isn't there any choice for us but obeying whatsoever is determined as our destiny? 

This subject has been discussed by many philosophers during the centuries. Some of them said we have control on our fate and can change it the way we desire and some of them said we have no control on it at all and just experience our written destiny.

Now when I think about it, I really shock and don’t know whether they knew about this clear fact that we are not apart from God or not?!While we are not separate from God, speaking about it is meaningless!!God exists in everything in this world! So when I say I’v determined  my aim in life, it means me and God inside me have done it!We should understand we are part of God. Our determination is his determination and vise versa. 

Understanding the fact of being one with God is a very complicated matter because, in our life, we continuously face with conditions which they seem are against this fact and want to prove us we are wrong. For example, when we are in an unwanted and painful situation, we say it’s ridiculous if I say it was me who has chosen it! Why should I do that?!

The answer is, our spiritual part which is always taking part with God to determine our fate day by day, pay attention to so much more aspects than what we do! It may be so painful for us in that time but what we obtain from it is so much more than what we have lost for it! The lessons and experiences we’ve got from it are what we don’t pay attention when we are in that condition and passing those hard days.

Money Can't Make Us Happier

   Does money make us happier? Does it bring more peace for us? The answer is definitely not. the more money we gain, the more concern we become! We can not deny it though we try to do it! The rich people just pretend they are in more peace and are happier than others. They really are not happier than other people!

  What I’m sure is that money can definitely not make us happier! If we are looking for peace and happiness, we won’t be able to find them in money. No doubt about it. We may don’t believe it, but that’s quietly right! There is absolutely nothing in money but more concern about losing it! I think it’s just spiritual people that even if they are rich, they don’t let it overcomes them and takes their peace from them. They look at money in very different way than ordinary people.

  Those people who are bustling so hard to gain money for making their life better and more enjoyable, don’t know that they are losing present in search of better future while they will never see this desired future at all; Though they are becoming richer and richer ! They can feel nothing has changed inside them after gaining more money, but they try to ignore it and pretend they have become happier than before.

  

  Nothing in outside can bring happiness for us. Neither money nor anything else! We should enjoy our life with whatsoever we have right now! So we need to practice to live now and here! Future belongs to future. The only thing we have is present.

DON’T LOSE IT…!   

Keep Your Mind Empty!

                                                                              

It is said that about 60000 thoughts come to our mind every day and we let them to do whatever they like with us! It’s really amazing. It shows we have no control on our mind at all.

If we know that every each of these thoughts bring with themselves a feeling and these feelings are the source of our actions and decisions, then we can understand how important they are!

When a negative thought come to our mind, it changes our felling so much sooner than we think it can. At his time this felling is our master and leads us wherever it likes!

We should be more aware of the power of our thoughts! They really are so powerful. It’s we who must be the master of our thoughts not our thoughts be our master!! It’s a very very important point.

Controlling our mind is so hard but not impossible. Our mind tends to think about something all the time; it seems it doesn’t like to rest at all! And always can find something to think about. The problem is, it doesn’t matter for it which kind of though it is and which felling it’s going to bring with itself.

For managing our mind it’s not needed to think about positive thoughts all the time to have good felling. By keeping our mind empty, we can see it’s just good felling in us!! It’s really amazing! Just by keeping it empty! Nothing more.

Why We Never Feel Satisfied?

Sometimes i think with me how short this life is. The process of aging is so fast; so much faster than we imagine. All the time we are waiting for a better life in future and very seldom we are satisfied of what we have now.

In fact it’s the ego inside us that never lets us satisfy what we have. It’s like an anemy for us; a very powerfull one! If we try to satisfy it,even  our lifetime won’t be enough for doing this. Ego wants more and more of everything and never say ok that’s enough.

Although there is a positive point in it too and we can see it in the invents of human being during the history. This unsatisfaction in our ego has made us to improve in science and thechnology etc. So there IS a positive aspect in it too. But in it’s negative aspect, it really can be an enemy for us.

For example in obtaining money. It’s very foolish if we think by getting the money our ego desires, one day we can hear it tells us thank you thats enough! We’ll never hear such a thing of it..never.  it really is absurd if we think rich people are satisfied of life and enjoying it. They  just pretend they enjoy life! For  example after paying lots of money and building a castle, they feel no enjoyment of it after few months.

But they have to pretend among other people that they enjoy it! They are not happy but pretened they are. I don’t say money is not good. Of course it’s good! But what i want to say is DON’T RELY ON MONEY AS WHAT IS GONNA BRING YOU HAPPINESS AND JOY!!!

 It will never do that!