Ehsan Saedi

What destroy us is not the events or accidents but the thoughts of that event in our mind! We are slaved by our mind and are not aware of it. We let it guide us wherever it likes and give us what filing it likes. Our mind itself is quietly under control of our feelings ant let them overcome him and follow what that feeling whant it to follow. So it searches for thoughts which increase that feeling automatically. In every moment it's so important to be aware of what's going on in our mind and not which thought it's in it. As soon as we become aware of it, we can realize the feeling inside it as well. What is very important here is to observe it from outside as if we are looking at it by the someone else's eyes. One negative thought which sometimes comes to the mind of many people is looking down on themselves and feeling that they don't deserve having improved in their life and being the master of their own. All such negative thoughts come to our mind one after another just when we have let the atmosphere of our mind be in negative state which is the reason of absorbing other negative thoughts. Our mind can be our best friend while it can be our biggest enemy too! If we let our mind be under control of the ego inside us then we are slaved by our ego through our mind. Ego never feels satisfied; Never..it always requests more and more and never says okay that's enough, I'm satisfied now! The reason absolutely majority of people are not satisfied of their life and are not happy inside is that. We should realize that the life never moves in a stable movement. Accidents, illnesses, losing loved ones, financial problems and etc are part of our life. Life without them is not life! In another word, the definition of life is a collection of all good things and bad things. Or happy times and hard times. Spiritual people look at everything as good things because they known that everything is for our good even if it's very bitter for us at the time of happening.